Wednesday, 26 February 2014

The Pregnant Illiterate Woman



My neighbour, Sangeetha is pregnant with her second child. She has nausea and vomiting.She sleeps for long and rarely sits on her bed too, all the while just sleeping.Due to this, consuming food was her last option.

She was 18 when she was carrying her first child.A weak and underdeveloped body of her's doctor had to administer so much medicines to save the child. God's grace she had a beautifull, healthy girl child, Ananya.

This time without eating needed food , doc has said she will have to abort the child if sangi remains unhealthy. We tried our level best to make her realise the importance of nutritious food for a growing baby in her womb.She is adamant on the fact that doc didn't prescribe medicines ,she is useless. She says the doc has to give injection , prescribe medicines for the baby ,nothing to do with food. She is questioning how did she carry on with her first pregnancy in India. We have lsot all hopes to make her come to her senses.

I used to read about the Asha workers going about teaching the pregnant ladies at villages, the importance of the nutritions.I never thought that was a big job ,now am realising the value of the last grade of Medical field's cumbersome efforts behind every healthy pregnancy in India.

Sunday, 23 February 2014

Chinese who don't know Hindi



Jumbling with the office keys,I some how opened the door and reached my seat.Following me some of the company drivers entered.

Kishan,the General Supervisor instructed Nahim , an Indian driver to ask the chinese technicians to give the report which has to be submitted to the head office.

Nahim was a true Indian,he didnt know any other language other than Hindi.He held his head high and asked them "Papers khidar hey."

They just stood staring at him as if he was from the moon.Nahim got irritated and started shouting at them "Khidar se ayya hey ,hindi bee nahin mallum .Kay chinese hain ,hindi nahi athe .Abhi kya karrooon maein." Hearing this the chinese technicians burst out laughing .Sahking his head, Kishan interwened and got the papers for Nahim.

With the papers in hand Nahim walked off in a huff.All in office had an hearty laugh. A good morning to begin with.

Tuesday, 11 February 2014

The idiot box ....missing from my life


I am a tv maniac and ends up hours in front of that........

My father used to comment when my daughter is tired of watching TV , she reads her books while the whole world does the other way .

Getting married , I thought much changes wont happen, I took life to be fully positive.

Entering the new marital home,my mother in law gave me a strict order not to watch TV with my father in law , HE DOESNT LIKE ITt. You will feel this to be weird , even I felt the same but that was the truth.he hated anyone watching TV with him. THE middle class ones, we cant afford another one.

After a yr TV less toil in laws house landed in Dubai and lo!!!! hubby told I will grow lazy if I watch tv.He was upbringing me while I thought I was married to him.He was my mentor not life partner.

Accepting this twist in tale ,I was happy when in his friends room they took cable.Ok now I can watch atleast an hour when am there.Suddenly they stopped watching TV during dinner time as its not good for health, and the most funniest thing is that I go to their house only at Dinner time since we dine together .

That sweet idiot box left my life in this 21st century.......Hope I was born in 10 th century bcos I am still living there.......

Wednesday, 5 February 2014

Silent Life


He was disturbed for a reason that I dont know.Pacing up and down in his room,I felt like asking him was anything wrong.Guts didnt pile up for the same.I glanced at him and went away to the other room .

Half an hour latter , he pushed the door open and shouted TEA.

I got up and made one.Pestering him to talk ,I tried a few ways nothing worked .I went back to the other room.

My day ended with ending the tutitions of Shangi and retiring to bed.

Only 2 months left for 2nd wedding anniversary,we have grown far apart. I had read these lines somewhere
"What mystery is this that we are living
Parallel lives
Two train tracks that never meet"

Monday, 3 February 2014

Hubby goes mad


Puffs of nearly a dozen cigrattes in bathroom made me think ...is this guy nuts.


After mumbling some thing in his mouth, laid down on his bed for a sleep.Uncomfortably I slept on the other side of the king size bed.Shifting uneasily some how I got sleep.

At dinner time,we had dinner and when I reached the bedroom door ,he banged the door on my face saying ......GET LOST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, 2 February 2014

What is wrong with my hubby

After my birthday bash I was lounging in the sofa when my friend told me to accompany her for her daughters PTA meeting to be held on the next day. She was speaking in telugu ,my hus cant understand that language hopefully I know.I translated that to him and he told fine and I nodded an yes to her.

He was his usual self after she left and waving to me happily ,he left for his office the next day while I left with my friend to the school.
Returning back I went with her to meet a guy ,our mutual friend.His daughter was getting married and he wanted to purchase gold .

The friend called up both our hubby's and they gave green signal to help him in his purchase.

Evening I returned home to find my hubby sitting with a long face and I sat wondering why??????????
After a lot of pestering,He started screaming his throat out saying I go where ever I want and he is fed up with that.

Can you help me out , how to deal with this man