A little bit of Jaggery's side effects

Good Morning!!!!!

I had been to the Jamaiyah for getting a  load of vegetables. Bitter gourd  was something I detest, hubby's liking to that made me go for it.

Reaching home, I surfed through the net for a new recipe. Got a good  tamilian pavakka puli curry .Felt will surprise him today.

Evening,hubby and his friend was busy in their SAP online class. I had chronic pain in my knees but the interest to cook something newmade me keep that aside .After a 2 hrs of turmoil and pain , I completed the cooking . Hus friend asked me if I was cooking something special.I answered him saying that was bitter gourd.  He knew my hatred towards pavakka and suggested to add a bit of jaggery to ward of the bitter taste.

I added a bit of that , a lol behold hubby turned the house upside down saying he doesn't want food as I am doing what ever I wished and lots more.I simply stared at him and sat silently.

We had the supper with him eating the rice with curd and I with bitter gourd curry.

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Transformation from Daughter in law to an abandoned soul

As what happens in most of Indian families, hubby left for his gulf job within 20 days after we tied the knot.As by the custom ,I stayed back in his parents house.I behaved with them as I would have with my parents little realizing that I was inviting trouble.

We had gone to visit a relative who was keeping unwell.Brought up in metro city , I sat in the living room as usual .Father in law asked me to get up and sit with the other ladies in Kitchen.I got up and left.

After reaching home that night, he blasted me saying my parents hasn't brought me up properly.I have no manners , I am not behaving like a woman and all the crap.I have to take care of his wife .He kept on ordering me the list of duties that i should do.I just stared at him,thinking am I married of to a 16th century family.I silently heard all these,but I felt like asking why cant you accept the daughter in law as your daughter.

That incident gave a tremendous impact on my life,I started my first steps to isolate myself from the In-law folks.One incident lead to another ,now I rarely talk to them.

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