Showing posts with label hell. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hell. Show all posts

Tuesday, 22 April 2014

Wasted 2 solid years


A page from a married lady's diary

My marriage was an arranged one with future in laws asking for a lump sum dowry.Till the last 2 weeks of marriage they gave a good image as sweet people and then asked for dowry .My father some how managed to give that.

From the day one they kept on taunting to get more from my parents i.e dowry in what ever items they can like furniture, dresses etc.My family kept on giving them. Fed up with their taunts and greediness , I went back home ,only to return when I got the green signal to join husband abroad.

On reaching back the in law home which I affectionately call THE DRACULA's BUNGALOW  ,they continued their crap of insulting , taunting etc.They made me go back home to get a gold chain which I left at home .Those days of torture ,sleepless nights makes me weep even now.

After reaching UK , I thought will change my husband's greediness, help him to be a good human being.Past 1.5 yr I kept on advising him to change his cannibal ways of life , to respect fellow beings, care for others, be polite etc.

Yesterday on the day of our wedding anniversary ,I knew my past 2 yrs had gone waste.He was sitting in front of the desk counting the gold ornaments that I had got ,turned and said you didn't give me the said amount.I sat crying into my blanket remembering the words he had once spoken when I told his parents treatment towards me....

" I didnt marry you for the gold and I don't care about it"

Now I knew somethings cannot be changed!!!

Monday, 3 February 2014

Hubby goes mad


Puffs of nearly a dozen cigrattes in bathroom made me think ...is this guy nuts.


After mumbling some thing in his mouth, laid down on his bed for a sleep.Uncomfortably I slept on the other side of the king size bed.Shifting uneasily some how I got sleep.

At dinner time,we had dinner and when I reached the bedroom door ,he banged the door on my face saying ......GET LOST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, 2 February 2014

What is wrong with my hubby

After my birthday bash I was lounging in the sofa when my friend told me to accompany her for her daughters PTA meeting to be held on the next day. She was speaking in telugu ,my hus cant understand that language hopefully I know.I translated that to him and he told fine and I nodded an yes to her.

He was his usual self after she left and waving to me happily ,he left for his office the next day while I left with my friend to the school.
Returning back I went with her to meet a guy ,our mutual friend.His daughter was getting married and he wanted to purchase gold .

The friend called up both our hubby's and they gave green signal to help him in his purchase.

Evening I returned home to find my hubby sitting with a long face and I sat wondering why??????????
After a lot of pestering,He started screaming his throat out saying I go where ever I want and he is fed up with that.

Can you help me out , how to deal with this man