Every one says couple working in the same office is a boon but my mind says the otherwise. I felt a happy when I was offered a job in his office. Gratefully I walked into it, thinking that life is cool .
The first day itself I felt his evading attitude when I went to his cabin during the lunch break to tell him my first few hours in this new job. He humiliated me saying why did you come here. Though I smiled and told just came here simply, I left with a heavy heart. Why he had to be so cruel.
Thinking that may be due to some rigid company rules, I threw that event to the back of my mind .Few days later when my colleague whose hubby too works in the same office went to meet her guy staying a few hours there ,I knew there was no hard and fast rule as I had felt.
Few months back,I wanted an internet connection at home. He dealt a blow to it saying he didn’t have the meager amount of Rs.500 for the monthly subscription while his annual salary exceeded 15 lakh. After I joined the office,I asked him to provide me some basic facilities of net at the office ,my plea fell on deaf ears .My colleagues though had most of the facilities ,why was he doing this to me.
He calls up some time during the working hours asking what my works are. One or two occasions I told currently I had no work ,that gave him a chance to tell my boss, his friends to give me some work so that I don’t while away my time.
After a 2 months at the office I started a small business online.I asked him so many doubts on the various topics to create a blog or website as he was in the IT field , a simple ‘I Don’t know’ was all I got. What was his problem , why is he doing this to me. What is my mistake ……I don’t know.
I am asking you folks ,do you want a partner who stands by you or against. Every girl walks into the married life thinking of all the beautiful things ahead but mind me, Life is not that simple or lively ,its full of compromises and adjustments.
The first day itself I felt his evading attitude when I went to his cabin during the lunch break to tell him my first few hours in this new job. He humiliated me saying why did you come here. Though I smiled and told just came here simply, I left with a heavy heart. Why he had to be so cruel.
Thinking that may be due to some rigid company rules, I threw that event to the back of my mind .Few days later when my colleague whose hubby too works in the same office went to meet her guy staying a few hours there ,I knew there was no hard and fast rule as I had felt.
Few months back,I wanted an internet connection at home. He dealt a blow to it saying he didn’t have the meager amount of Rs.500 for the monthly subscription while his annual salary exceeded 15 lakh. After I joined the office,I asked him to provide me some basic facilities of net at the office ,my plea fell on deaf ears .My colleagues though had most of the facilities ,why was he doing this to me.
He calls up some time during the working hours asking what my works are. One or two occasions I told currently I had no work ,that gave him a chance to tell my boss, his friends to give me some work so that I don’t while away my time.
After a 2 months at the office I started a small business online.I asked him so many doubts on the various topics to create a blog or website as he was in the IT field , a simple ‘I Don’t know’ was all I got. What was his problem , why is he doing this to me. What is my mistake ……I don’t know.
I am asking you folks ,do you want a partner who stands by you or against. Every girl walks into the married life thinking of all the beautiful things ahead but mind me, Life is not that simple or lively ,its full of compromises and adjustments.
hi confused mind..
ReplyDeleteyou have a very good writing skill. Keep on writing.. not only the sad teary stories. Also the funny and sweet moments too. By reading these I feel so emotional.. Be cool... stay calm pray hard... things will be in your way...